How Emotions Shape Your Reality and the Law of Attraction with The Third Element's Randy Lyman

2170 - How Emotions Shape Your Reality and the Law of Attraction with The Third Element's Randy Lyman

Leadership| Personal Development
May 01, 2025•3 min read

Unlocking the Power of Emotions in Business and Life: Insights from Randy Lyman

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In this episode of The Thoughtful Entrepreneur, host Josh Elledge welcomes Randy Lyman, a physicist, mechanical engineer, entrepreneur, and author of The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction. Randy blends decades of scientific expertise with a deep commitment to personal development, offering a compelling take on how our emotional landscape shapes success. Together, Josh and Randy explore the intersections of emotional healing, personal growth, and the misunderstood mechanics of the law of attraction.

Emotions: The Overlooked Driver of Personal and Business Transformation

Randy Lyman’s journey spans the analytical and the intuitive. With a successful track record of building multiple eight-figure businesses and a background in physics and engineering, he spent years seeking fulfillment beyond financial success. That pursuit led him to explore the emotional and spiritual aspects of life. What he discovered was transformative—not just for his life, but for those he now helps.

In this conversation, Randy emphasizes a critical shift: our results aren’t solely shaped by thoughts or actions, but by unprocessed emotions. The law of attraction, often reduced to “think it and it will happen,” is incomplete without emotional work. Randy introduces “The Third Element”—our emotional state—as the missing piece that determines whether we attract clarity or chaos.

He shares practical tools and emotional exercises that business leaders and entrepreneurs can use to develop self-awareness, regulate emotional responses, and process past wounds. Whether it’s journaling, deep breathing, or EFT tapping, Randy equips listeners with strategies to move from emotional suppression to intentional alignment.

About Randy Lyman

Randy Lyman is a physicist, mechanical engineer, entrepreneur, and emotional wellness coach. He is the founder of multiple successful companies in the natural wellness space and the author of The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction. His work bridges science and spirituality, guiding individuals to uncover emotional patterns that hold them back from success and fulfillment. Today, Randy offers coaching, courses, and consulting for those seeking emotional healing and clarity in both personal and professional life.

About The Third Element

In his book, The Third Element, Randy Lyman introduces a groundbreaking framework that adds emotions as a critical third component to the traditional equation of thought and action. Through logical explanations, real-life examples, and practical exercises, Randy helps readers understand how emotional energy influences outcomes—and how mastering this energy can lead to lasting transformation.

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Key Episode Highlights:

  • Emotions as the Missing Link: Randy explains how unprocessed emotional trauma can block the law of attraction—and how to release it.

  • The Three Elements: Thoughts, physical reality, and emotions must all be in alignment to create real transformation.

  • Scientific Meets Spiritual: A physicist’s breakdown of resonance and frequency as it applies to mindset and emotional energy.

  • Tools for Healing: Breathwork, EFT tapping, and journaling as practical methods for emotional release.

  • Mindset for Entrepreneurs: Why emotional alignment matters as much as strategy in achieving sustainable business success.

Conclusion

Randy Lyman brings an invaluable message to entrepreneurs: true success comes not just from hustle or vision, but from emotional clarity. By understanding and embracing our emotional experiences, we create space for transformation—in life, leadership, and legacy. His book, The Third Element, and his coaching programs provide a roadmap for those ready to explore the deeper work of aligning thought, action, and feeling.

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Josh Elledge is U.S. Navy veteran who became a serial entrepreneur who builds the companies he needs most in the world. In 2014, He launched UpMyInfluence to help entrepreneurs like himself attract the perfect audiences and grow their authority and influence. However, while growing their better-than-PR agency, UpMyInfluence discovered that building 7-figure B2B Sales Systems for consultants and agencies (with zero paid advertising) is actually what they do better than anyone else on the planet. UMI was the natural outgrowth of his first startup, SavingsAngel.com which had grown to more than 50 employees and grossed more than $6 million in sales with zero paid ads. He did it all through building authority and serving audiences in the media. Josh is a frequent speaker at business and startup conferences including Social Media Marketing World and a Tony Robbins event for his Business Mastery grads. He’s a weekly consumer expert on Fox 35 Orlando and News 13, writes a syndicated column for nine newspapers (with total readership above 1.1 million readers), and regularly appears on more than 75 TV stations across the country. All told, Josh has appeared in the media more than 2500 times. Passionate about his family, physical fitness (an avid fitness geek and 5K to marathon runner), and breaking out of Escape Rooms, Josh now lives in Orlando with his wife and three children.

Josh Elledge

Josh Elledge is U.S. Navy veteran who became a serial entrepreneur who builds the companies he needs most in the world. In 2014, He launched UpMyInfluence to help entrepreneurs like himself attract the perfect audiences and grow their authority and influence. However, while growing their better-than-PR agency, UpMyInfluence discovered that building 7-figure B2B Sales Systems for consultants and agencies (with zero paid advertising) is actually what they do better than anyone else on the planet. UMI was the natural outgrowth of his first startup, SavingsAngel.com which had grown to more than 50 employees and grossed more than $6 million in sales with zero paid ads. He did it all through building authority and serving audiences in the media. Josh is a frequent speaker at business and startup conferences including Social Media Marketing World and a Tony Robbins event for his Business Mastery grads. He’s a weekly consumer expert on Fox 35 Orlando and News 13, writes a syndicated column for nine newspapers (with total readership above 1.1 million readers), and regularly appears on more than 75 TV stations across the country. All told, Josh has appeared in the media more than 2500 times. Passionate about his family, physical fitness (an avid fitness geek and 5K to marathon runner), and breaking out of Escape Rooms, Josh now lives in Orlando with his wife and three children.

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